Yeka indodakazi engenasimilo, yeka isibindi sokuziphatha kanjalo phambi kukayise! Akumangalisi ukuthi athathe isinqumo sokumjezisa futhi amdonsele ngenduku yakhe. Kuyafaneleka ukunikeza le ntombazane isikweletu - kokubili isibalo sakhe nobuso buhle, kodwa ukuziphatha kwakhe kanye nomlingiswa wakhe, kunenkinga ngalokho. Uyise kufanele ayijezise kaningi.
Nokho, abafowabo nodadewabo ngamzali munye abahlobene nhlobo, ngakho-ke ngeke kubhekwe njengento embi noma engcolile. Akumangazi ukuthi insizwa nentombazane endala, abangenabo abalingani abavamile bocansi futhi cishe nsuku zonke bendawonye, kungazelelwe bazizwe bekhangwa ezingeni locansi komunye nomunye. Uma kucatshangelwa ukuthi intombazane iyithandile (umfana ke akukho mbuzo), ngicabanga ukuthi bazoqhubeka nokwenza lolu hlobo lwento ngezikhathi ezithile.